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The best Candle alternatives

Looking for a Candle app alternative? Six couples apps compared by what they're best at, platforms and US prices, plus when Candle is still the right pick.

Checked · By the Miles Apart team

The short answer

The usual reasons to look past Candle are the price (Premium starts at $4.99 a week in the US App Store), wanting more than a one-minute ritual, or wanting features built for long distance. If you're long distance, try Miles Apart, which is on iPhone and Android. For widgets and mood sharing, Couple Joy; for a shared pet and home, Cozy Couples. For the lightest habit, Agapé; for expert-led help, Paired.

Why look for a Candle alternative?

The weekly price adds up

Candle Premium starts at $4.99 a week in the US App Store, with $12.99 monthly and $39.99 to $49.99 yearly plans. If you stay, the yearly plan is much better value.

One minute a day feels too light

Candle is designed around one-minute rituals. Some couples, especially long distance, want more to do together: games on their own schedule, or decks for their next call.

You want features built for distance

Candle's Thumb Kisses are made with distance in mind, but letters that travel between your locations or a shared map of your trips aren't in its listing.

Stay with Candle if

  • You love the one-minute format and both of you open it every day.
  • You want local date ideas that refresh weekly, for when you're in the same city.
  • You use Thumb Kisses, where you tap together to feel a vibration, and don't want to give them up.

6 alternatives to Candle

  1. 1. Miles ApartOur app

    Best for: Long-distance couples who want more to do together

    Platforms
    iPhone (iOS 17 or later) and Android (9 or later)
    Price (US App Store)
    Free, with optional Miles Apart Pro. One subscription covers both partners.

    Our app, so weigh this accordingly. Like Candle it has a daily ritual, but a bigger one: three quick questions, a written answer and a photo prompt, revealed once you've both finished. Around it are 22 games (a daily mini crossword, Groups of 4, trivia, races against your partner's ghost), letters carried by a pigeon that flies the real distance between you, and a shared memory map. It's on iPhone and Android, and an iPhone user can pair with an Android user. The limit: it's new, launched on the App Store in August 2026 and on Google Play in September 2026, so it has far fewer reviews than Candle.

    Miles Apart vs Candle Get it on the App Store

  2. 2. Couple Joy

    Best for: Widgets, mood sharing and a distance counter

    Platforms
    iPhone and Android
    Price (US App Store)
    Free, with Premium plans from $12.99 to $39.99 in the US App Store

    Couple Joy has been around since 2022 and has over 37,000 App Store ratings. It swaps Candle's photo prompts for presence: couple widgets, real-time mood sharing, a distance tracker that shrinks as a visit gets closer, daily questions you can chat about, and a shared photo journal. Premium plans are listed from $12.99 to $39.99 in the US App Store.

    Miles Apart vs Couple Joy App Store listing

  3. 3. Cozy Couples

    Best for: Couples who want a shared pet, bonsai and home to look after

    Platforms
    iPhone and Android
    Price (US App Store)
    Free, with Plus plans at $4.99 to $7.99 and $29.99 to $39.99, plus in-app stars and streak repair

    If Candle's streak is the part that keeps you coming back, Cozy Couples builds a little world around it: a bonsai you nurture together, a virtual cat or dog, and a home you decorate with stars you earn. It also has mood sharing, love notes, daily questions and games, and it's on iPhone and Android. Note that stars and streak repairs are sold separately from Plus.

    Miles Apart vs Cozy Couples App Store listing

  4. 4. Agapé

    Best for: The lightest habit: one question a day

    Platforms
    iPhone and Android
    Price (US App Store)
    Free, with Premium from $9.99/month or $19.99 to $99.99/year

    If you like Candle's questions and not much else, Agapé is even simpler: one personalized question a day, with answers hidden until you've both replied. You can opt into categories like long distance or reconnecting, and use it with family and friends too. Its listing says thousands of questions are free; Premium categories start at $9.99 a month.

    Miles Apart vs Agapé App Store listing

  5. 5. Paired

    Best for: Couples who want expert-led help with communication

    Platforms
    iPhone and Android
    Price (US App Store)
    Free, with Premium at $14.99/month or $29.99 to $74.99/year

    Paired is one of the most established couples apps, launched in 2020 with over 200,000 App Store ratings. Its daily question works much like Candle's, and Premium adds expert-guided journeys on communication, conflict and topics like money. It's less playful and more like a course, which is exactly what some couples want.

    Miles Apart vs Paired App Store listing

  6. 6. Widgetable

    Best for: Couples who mainly want each other on the home screen

    Platforms
    iPhone and Android
    Price (US App Store)
    Free, with Premium at $1.99 to $4.99/month or $19.99/year, plus in-app diamonds and pet items

    If what you liked most about Candle was the feeling of your partner nearby, Widgetable puts them on your home and Lock Screen: a distance widget, mood and status widgets, notes and doodles pinned to each other's screens, and virtual pets you raise together. It works with friends too, and Premium starts at $1.99 a month.

    Miles Apart vs Widgetable App Store listing

At a glance

AppBest forPlatformsPrice (US App Store)
Miles ApartLong-distance couples who want more to do togetheriPhone (iOS 17 or later) and Android (9 or later)Free, with optional Miles Apart Pro. One subscription covers both partners.
Couple JoyWidgets, mood sharing and a distance counteriPhone and AndroidFree, with Premium plans from $12.99 to $39.99 in the US App Store
Cozy CouplesCouples who want a shared pet, bonsai and home to look afteriPhone and AndroidFree, with Plus plans at $4.99 to $7.99 and $29.99 to $39.99, plus in-app stars and streak repair
AgapéThe lightest habit: one question a dayiPhone and AndroidFree, with Premium from $9.99/month or $19.99 to $99.99/year
PairedCouples who want expert-led help with communicationiPhone and AndroidFree, with Premium at $14.99/month or $29.99 to $74.99/year
WidgetableCouples who mainly want each other on the home screeniPhone and AndroidFree, with Premium at $1.99 to $4.99/month or $19.99/year, plus in-app diamonds and pet items

Frequently asked questions

What is the best Candle alternative for long-distance couples?

Miles Apart is built around long distance, with a daily photo challenge that reveals together, 22 games, pigeon letters and a shared memory map, and it works on iPhone and Android, including for couples with one of each. If you'd rather have mood sharing and widgets, Couple Joy and Cozy Couples are the closest matches.

Is there a free alternative to Candle?

Every app on this list is free to download with an optional paid upgrade. Agapé's listing says you can answer thousands of questions for free, and Miles Apart's free version includes its daily challenge and games like Guess the Word, Groups of 4 and the Mini Crossword.

How much does Candle Premium cost?

In the US App Store, Candle Premium is $4.99 a week, $12.99 a month, or $39.99 to $49.99 a year, as checked in September 2026. Prices vary by region and change over time, so check the listing before you subscribe.

Is Candle on Android?

Yes. Candle is on iPhone and Android, so it works for mixed-phone couples. So do all the alternatives on this page: Miles Apart, Couple Joy, Cozy Couples, Agapé, Paired and Widgetable are on both platforms too.

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